As the Creatrix of Bondassage®, Elysium by Bondassage®, Bondassage For Couples, and the Art of Bondassage Online Courses, I’ve had the privilege of introducing thousands of folks worldwide to this uniquely sensual, kinky, blissfully pleasurable, and provocative form of bodywork.

My passion and life’s work is to educate, simplify, de-stigmatize, and make kinky play and erotic massage accessible to everyone through in-person sessions, my book, and online training. Humor, compassion, intuition, and integrity are integral to my work.

Born and raised in the Bay Area, just 17 minutes from San Francisco, I’ve been kinky my entire life. Ever since I can remember, I’ve had fantasies of domination, surrender, bondage, and of either giving or experiencing the most depraved acts you can imagine.  When I was just five years old, my first fantasy was based on a Three Stooges episode in which a beautiful woman was tied helplessly to an evil mad scientist’s table (there was also a gorilla beside her about to break out of his cage). I was reading Victorian erotica and the Marquis deSade at 12 and exploring naughty delights with the neighbor kids.

My fascination with all forms of sexuality, sensuality, touch, pleasure, BDSM, desire, and all things “taboo” have informed my research and training, which ultimately landed me here. I am passionate about human and animal rights, free speech, reproductive and sexual freedom, sex workers’ rights, and climate change. Outside this realm, I’m a classically trained singer, a voracious bibliophile, an obsessed fiber artist, a Virgo with Taurus rising, and an INFJ.  

I began my training as a Bodyworker in 1989. I now have over 2,000 hours of advanced training in several healing modalities: Amma, Swedish, Acupressure, Shiatsu, Deep Tissue, Sports Massage, Reiki, Rebirthing, Polarity, Trigger and Active Release, Thai, Tantra and Taoist Massage, Shamanic Journeying, Aromatherapy, and Esoteric Energy Healing. I am a Barbara Carrelles’ Urban Tantra for Professionals program graduate, a Sensual Shaman, and a Third-Degree Reiki Master. 

As an Erotic Dominant, I have decades of experience in the “darker arts” of BDSM, and I specialize in Corporal Punishment, Bondage, Sensory Deprivation, and a wide variety of body play. I am clever and creative, intelligent, intuitive, and highly practiced in the art of BDSM. I am also gifted with an incredibly wicked imagination. BDSM is a valid path to self-discovery and healing; submission can be a path to the Divine.

I also believe kink can be lighthearted, fun, creative, playful, connecting, mind-blowing, and easy.

I offer education, instruction, and coaching to individuals, couples, erotic bodyworkers, and sexuality professionals online through Zoom.

“An experience that will redefine how you view absolute pleasure.”

I offer online Bondassage for Couples Coaching.  Find out more HERE

Purchase The Art of Bondassage® Online Course HERE  

Purchase the Advanced Art of Bondassage Video Course HERE 

My book (written with Eve Minax),  Bondassage: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips for Lovers, is available HERE

For more information, you may contact me at jaeleen@bondassage.com